This is signficant news! Though I don't think it changes the course you've been steering; actually I think it merely validates it. It is evidence that you have been making important changes and building a better life for yourself (and you've done amazing with taking some chances, making lots of difficult decisions, and taking action steps to rebuild from such a shattering experience). And, you're right--clearly he has been noticing (which isn't the primary point, but it sure is satisfying as a secondary gain, ain't it?!).
It's interesting how you are connected indirectly with him through this extended circle of contacts. It allows you to maintain an eye/ear on his situation without the direct contact.
But seriously, don't make that your primary focal point! Keep on building for Ali. Look at how far you've come in the last several months even. Through different jobs, dealing with the housing stuff, dealing with the periods of little contact with him, etc. You have handled it and are doing great with connections with others. I know it is still very hard, and in some ways no less frustrating, but keep on going!
