Hey T.. of course you havent upset anyone you nana! Its just Christmas week and few people are posting. And your post wasnt too long! It was interesting, but.. I havent read the book, so I wasnt sure what you meant about differentiating and it seemed inconclusive.. what you were saying?
I think my sitch currently is a good example of.. you just dont know what these guys are thinking (whilst we still have some contact.. ok, if they remarry, move away, dont return calls THEN you could say, ok, this isnt looking good, right?). But.. follow your intutition, thats what I do, and also, I see it in his eyes.. I see the depth of emotion still there, so thats why I havent given up even if that may seem madness!
So.. can you clarify what your intentions are? I thought you meant you werent going to push for the Jan meeting? And thanks so much for posting and for your back flips!!!
I may post a pic of my boots on FB.. why dont you join? As your alias? You dont have to link to RL peeps then.. just us DBers, you dont have to post pics either, Lisa hasnt?? But.. we have some laughs on there, more messages to one another, its fun! Al xx