Hey T.. of course you havent upset anyone you nana! And your post wasnt too long! It was interesting, but.. I havent read the book, so I wasnt sure what you meant about differentiating and it seemed inconcusive.. what you were saying? I think my sitch currently is a good example of.. you just dont know what these guys are thinking (whilst we still have some contact.. ok, if they remarry, move away, dont return calls THEN you could say, ok, this isnt looking good, right?). But.. follow your intutition, thats what I do, and also, I see it in his eyes.. I see the depth of emotion still there, so thats why I havent given up even if that may seem to some people as madness!

So.. can you clarify what your intentions are? I thought you meant you werent going to push for the Jan meeting? And thanks so much for posting and for your back flips!!!

Al xx


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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