Karen: I'm going to get a chocolate cake for H's birthday "from the kids" of course, and if he doesn't like it, oh well. Am I being a real meanie or softie, I'm not sure anymore! I'm trying for in-between though.
This is all too wierd, I didn't know what to do for Christmas, I knew W was comming over, so I made sure I bought several presents for her so each child had something to give their mom.
What is the proper etiquette for birthdays, etc. do I have to buy her presents every birthday for the kids to give her, does she come over to have cake with the kids, do the kids go over to her apartment.
You are being very nice and polite. You are not being mean or a softie, you are just being you, which is just right
M45 W41 M10.75 years D9, D7, D7, S6 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me New Abbreviation = WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 W files for D 07/18/08
