I consider you a friend. Whether you know it or not, you helped me quite a bit back in the day. I wish the best for you and your kids and believe that you will find a way to get to the other side of this, for you and for them. That is, if you quit trying to do it by yourself...
Yes, I am still in the South (and likely always will be). But I do have to spend a lot of time up around your old stomping grounds...thank goodness I know a Jersey Girl to show me around!
