Hey H4H, I've been lurking in the shadows, I agree with your comments
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H4H: I think you're right. Its the deepness that we shared and still share, ESPECIALLY for the kids. We've shared and gone through so much, theres no way that they'll experience the same type with someone else, us included of course. Wouldn't that be great, to be there right at the moment when the light switch turns on? To see them when the 'click' happens? The day of realization?
How life changes, nothing ever stays the same or said a different way nothing is ever like is was. The good times spent with W and kids can now never be repeated, have to look forward to making memories on our own or hopefully with someone we may meet. Waiting for the light to click on for them may take some time, but from everything I have read and what other people have told me, a large percentage of WAS do have that realization at some point of what they left behind and how they screwed up.
I don't know - life moves on, wierd always wierd, having to think about moving on when you've been with someone so long.
M45 W41 M10.75 years D9, D7, D7, S6 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me New Abbreviation = WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 W files for D 07/18/08
