I wish I could contact you on FB.. but it is blocked at work.. so ..no access right now.
Talked to L abt alot.. Just got a letter from H L reguarding me closing my credit card which he was autho signer on. He was only one using it and he was using for work and fun..but he has yet to give me and expense report payment since JULY...thousands of dollars at this point owed..when I found out he had another card in his name only available for him to use I canceled his access. I don't need him ruining my credit. He has always been great at making money and horrible at paying bills and handling finances.
Anyway he has been saying alot of nasty things. Still trying to claim computer was broke. Said he will return it when fixed..I think that means when he cleans off what he needs.
Just got custody aggreement that I need to look over. this is all happening so fast and with being so angry I don't want to make any wrong choices.
last night when I got home, H also took out the trash..but then in the clean trash can threw out all the pictures of us and items from wedding...and a few other memorablia. Left trash can in kitchen for me to see.. I took the stuff out and saved. If he went so far as to actually take all the trash out he should have thrown that out too, but he was definately trying to hurt me.
I mentioned something to him about cleaning up and he said no, problem he was trying to help me declutter...
this whole thing is sad. He won't stop texting me now...I am ignoring him and he won't stop. He said some really nasty things about how I am the one to blame, abt how me being depressed was why he doesn't love me anymore and I said I am sorry you can't forgive people when they have problems. I am sorry you can't see that others hurt sometimes..and some other things along those lines.. Basically he keeps saying he doesn't care at all about me, so I figured fine I am not going to play this game. I said something to him about how I forgave him the first time he made a big mistake years ago..(he cheated then) and he just said ..Oh I don't know if that was a mistake...and now I am done..I refuse to talk to him..So he called me at work 5x and I just hung up and now my phone is vibrating to death.
So I am here..just venting..avoiding the house b/c he is there with kids. Supposed to be taking D to movies. Now he says he is keeping her for the night.
I just want this to end and I want to move on...
Talk to you all later. Hopefully I will have a computer back in a few days!!
