Saturday night I asked H point blank if I should just give up and he said he didn't want me to.

Today I (for the first time in forever) logged into Facebook and he had uploaded 60+ photos yesterday. I was in ONE of them (with my DD and her xBF.) ONE! I tell him I need to feel important in his life and I manage to be in ONE photo when he just uploaded them. I could "understand" if they had been uploaded previously because currently I have no pics of him in my profile--but I took those OUT when he said he didn't want to be married in October.
AND
He had different categories like "my house", "my family", "4x4ing" & "Turkey" plus 3 random photos. ONE photo was of him in Costa Rica (and I only know it was from CR cuz I took it). So, it's like Costa Rica never happened--and do we know WHY it's like it never happened???? Because he went with me! That's why! I am so pissed right now.

Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing