JonF, thanks for your advice and wow, 2-1/2 years and I thought I had a lot of patience.
I agree with being consistant and doing for yourself. I have been doing that for quite along time but the thought of being taken for a ride just irritates me. I see in you signature line that your W has OM and that really sucks, sorry about that. Nothing is more painful than a cheating spouse.
I will continue being nice but I am thinking that it is getting to be about that time to either commit or seperate. I don't mind putting in the effort and time to improve our R but I do not want to continue if it is a waste or my time and she is never going to commit to us. If that make sense.
Take care and I hope your patience pays off the way you want it to.
