BH, No it not blowing sunshine, but it can be just as harmful is what I said. Blowing sunshine hurts later. Blunt honesty hurts at the outset.
There are no hard numbers here. None, and all data can be corrupt to support a position. No, I am not saying you are.
Just as there is no set one way to do this. I agree with you that in most case dettaching is the best way to go. In most cases. But not every case.
Similar circumstances for a majority here. The MLCer is a huge factor in whether or not a marriage can, dare I say should survive. But not to be overlooked is the LBS and what they do, or do not do.
I really am not butting heads with you BH. I am not trying to be antogonistic, we are both saying the same things, just in different ways, and for similar reasons.
Some people see the mountain and are determined to get to the top, for them the challenge excites them. For others they see the mountain and give up. Even though they are more than capable of getting to the top it is too much at once for them to get their head around.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
