Oh SC, you really are amazing. I know others might disagree, but I think the talk you had with your h was an honest and insightful one. I think you can never go wrong when speaking the truth.
I know that one day your h will realize what how special you are. It is so sad when we see what our h's have become and how far away they are from who they were.
I hope that you (and everyone else going through this) will make 2009 the year of new beginnings.
