Standing on the Edge

[MsMelancoly]

"she accused ME of being controlling because I wanted to know when she was going to come back from shopping late in the evening.

I just thought it would be common courtesy to let me know when to expect her back, so that if she did not come back at that time, I would know to be concerned."

My H called me too controlling too. When did she say this? When things were good or bad?? If it was when times were bad, then it's over-reacting & just throwing as much sh*t at you as possible. I guess, when things start to go bad, the rules change (ie. not asking when you are going to be home). When things are good - no problem & no offense taken - right???

So what's your W's LL?