Thank you for your kind words. H never comes around. He lives 1 1/2 hr away with OW. If anything is needed to be done he has S's do it for him. H did like to help but he has put me so completely out of his life that I don't think anything will help us now.
Trusting:
Thank you too. Everyone is telling me to get pass this. It's going to make me bitter. I know patience is the key. I REALLY need to work on this one.
I went to see my friend that is caught in the middle to talk to her about last night. She said I should be mad at H not OW. OW didn't do this to me. I just can't bring myself to be mad at H. I love him dearly. She told me that I can't ask her not to be friends with someone just because they aren't my friend. I understand this but it's hard. She said that OW is a nice person. I personally do not understand how anyone can say the OW is a nice person after what they have done to help H in destroying their W and children.
Some words of wisedom would be greatly appreciated right now. I'm having such a melt down!
