Hi GFI, Well maybe try to figure out why you are resisting. Is it because you think there is hope with your W or are you afraid that if you start a relationship with an OW , you would find it difficult to go back to your W? Sort of like being between a rock and a hard place, huh? If only we could have a glimpse of the future. Do what feels right and good, life is too short to waste waiting to see what happens.