I have never posted to you but have caught up here and there. I read all of your words Lissie and I believe them. I just wonder if we would be feeling this way if our divorces didn't involve a third party. I mean if ex had taken time "away" from a relationship and then met someone and they became involved, would we still be angry? This is still someone else with our child but they didn't wreck havoc with our family.
Does the idea ever stop hurting?
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory