Cleaning out Clutter - ? For Men

[MsMelancoly]

Hey native, Thanks for stopping by with a mans POV. Really .... it shouldn't take that long to catch up on my sitch ~ LOL ~

Yes, You do ask some good, tough questions. You might be correct that my H isn't capable of a LTR. Never thought about it nor was it put so directly to me.

Maybe I should really listen, to what he wants & has said to me several times. He has said & thinks we should D & work on our R (or M) after we D. Kind of a catch22 doesn't want to stay M or loose me (as a friends anyway) - but wants to work on things after D. DBcoach Jody said once that after D he may be at a comfortable distance to work on R or M. Do I have my answer then & its been sitting in front of me??

"What would he have to do to make you take him back? What change would you like to see in him ?"

Ya know native - I cannot even think that far ahead. Currently, I'm just trying to be friends. I would like him to email or call me on his own. Yes, I have great even huge expectations (I'm being sarcastic BTW).