Sounds like a great trip. Things are pretty much bare and dry all the way from here all the way over Snoqualamie. Things look pretty good through the Blue Mountains. I you come up along the Columbia, Satus is traction tires advised, but looks pretty do-able. Of course do the passes during the day, much easier to handle. If you get in a jam, don't be afraid to call. I'll be in town till Friday, then I'll be up in your neck of the woods late Friday, through the weekend.
I hope this trip is giving you and H a bit of a chance to reconnect. Hopefully he is showing you some of the affection he has been afraid to show.
If you folks need help, don't be afraid to call, I'm in the book.