Shifu You have helped lots lots of people around here. Trust me, you do. Ken is so right, you are a great father. You sons have a true role model to look up to in every aspect of their lives. Now that is a true 'water off a duck's back'......her anger/darkness doesn't affect you now.
Another thing that I learn from my mess...it is anger. May be I should have noticed long time ago. I guess I am just slow...LOL Anger mostly is the secondary emotion to hide the true feelings. Anger make us feel strong and in control, but what truely behind the anger is another story. To me, it was sadness, betrayed and disappointment....etc. I am not saying you should dig deep to find out what caused your W's angers.....just a though.
Keep up the good work....
NW626
Me:33 STBXW:38 S:3 It's not whether you win or lose, it's how you fight the fight....!!
