If I Could Be Like That

[ernest88]

Ooh, ooh, which one am I? huh? huh? Now, be honest!!

I thought we already determined what you were?? extra exceptional, extrodinary..correct and maybe a little abnormal due to the artist factor...

you know I think your an awesome woman Donna..helll all the woman here are awesome..

Are you concerned about HS38 because she knowingly opened a gateway of drama between her X and yours?

there is an ex-BF/stalker wanna be bad boy who has not given up..she did not open a gateway of drama..lets say he dis some investigative work and found Kim's phone number..placing a phone call and chatting..

Is she still unconsciously attached to her X

that is a hard question for me to answer..I'll say she has not taken care of the problem in a way that i think the problem should be taken care of. Sometimes those problems just won't go away. They just don't tend to dissapear by themselves.

I bet you were pissed, and don't know where to direct that emotion

I'm not gonna classify myself as pissed..because honestly I'm not..I'm more upset that their seems to be an issue in dealing with the problem..

it's not my problem to deal with unless of course it is brought to me by him..which I'm sure it won't be..I happened to get a call also..and he knows where I am..he has been informed of the consiquences of his actions if he decides to persue any type harressment with me or Caleigh...and Kim since Kim has Caleigh..
it won't be pleasent, it will be all out..it will be full bore..

did she play a part in this drama, or just make a mistake in letting her X know about you, not realizing that he would be that unstable and inappropriate as to get into your business?

nope don't think she played a part in the original phone call...don't think she made any mistakes..I think she did not fully realize exactly what he was and is finding out pretty quick..

That sitch does sound like a clusterf....

it could be...that's why I'm doing what I'm doing..sitting back, wondering, waiting..looking at myself..

but isn't what you would be missing worth the risk of being out there, connected with someone?

Trying to figure that out..

Is she worth it?

I can't answer that honestly..it's way to early to even contemplate that..

I guess the question is, "are they worthy of me"? I know that sounds self centered, egotistical and all that..but chitt women I meet don't seem to want the "nice guy"...they seem to love the abuser..bad boy types...