Glam, your actions dont match your words....you talk about how down he is...etc, how he cant handle things...and you pile the responsibilty of your kids on him and the pressure of being a responsible parent which he clearly isnt and the pressure of you being mad when when he doesnt meet up to your expectations. the kids may be his light, but he needs professional help to get stabilized, maybe even checked in somewhere for a few. He hasnt been showing up in a timely fashion and the last time he crwled in on his hands and knees saying how depressed he was, you put on a bandaid over it and had sex! werent you already late for work???? im a bit puzzled on that one what are you gonna do if after all this you are doing for him..he still isnt ready to move home.????
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest