Its now about just letting her see it though, its about really doing it. This is hard in the early stages because you are filled with grief. You cannot change for her. You have to change for you. You have to be of the mindset that REGARDLESS of the outcome, you want to be a better person. DBing is not just about winning the person back, but about being the best you can be, whether you reconcile or not.


Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..