It will get better SL. Sorry you were down at Christmas. I think my h too felt I did things on my own and made my own decisions.

So what I started to do, is left things for my h to do. Like h next time you come over can you hang a photo for me in the bedroom. H I am thinking of purchasing a compute printer. What would you recommend. Keeps him connected and he gets to help. If your h likes to help then you want to let him help.

I have seen the secret on DVD. It's a good concept. You might want to check it out. My h was saying something the other day about making me happy. I stopped him, looked him straight in the eye and said h you are not responsible for my happiness I am. I also said h thank you though for thinking of me that way. I do appreciate it.

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"