Well Pam, that's the million-dollar question.

I really don't KNOW what changed CJ's mind...I don't know if it was an "aha" moment, a gradual change or what. That is bothersome, I must say.

He says he'd decided to stay waaaay back after OW was first "exposed"....but he treated me like crap, never said a comforting word, and continued to see her for 3 more months!!!

And as for David...hon, your guesses at this point are nothing but mind-reading...totally understandable when said mind's contents are not being shared with you! ...but not always the most accurate!

Going to tackle the rest of the hedge and shrubs today...I hope we don't get lost!

Shiny