my wife knows that she has a low libido, and refuses to do anything about it, because she would rather sleep than have sex, and doesn't care for my needs. she feels that sex is unimportant and the more i tell her it's very important, the more she tells me that there are millions like her and if i don't like it, there's the door.
we continually have sex once a month on her terms. once she is satisfied, i then have to wait another month to do it again. if i try to initiate, she pushes me away and tells me to leave her alone. she just doesn't understand and will not try to meet me half way.
i truly feel that this marriage is on it's way out.
how can someone be married to someone that doesn't feel or desire the other the same way? we are on opposite sides of the spectrum and all i would like is to meet half way. i don't expect sex everyday, just a little desire from her would be fulfilling: stealing a moment to make-out, hearing from her how much she wants me too, etc. she tells me that i live in a dream and that i should stop acting like a 15 yr old. i can't. when i see her i desire her and now i have been trying to turn myself off towards her because of her continually rejecting my every move.
nothing has improved since my last posting, and she refuses to seek counceling.
