If you figure out HOW to direct some of that focus towards home improvements I would love to know about it. David doesn't seem to have much focus in that area either. Hence Pam's major house projects with David gone!!

I discovered when my feelings are hurt or I am upset I still do sarcastic jabs. But you know that IS the way my mom tends to communicate to my dad so I guess I shouldn't be surprised that when under duress that is the pattern I fall back on. NOW to continue changing IT!!

I'm glad the wedding ceremony was nice. Sorry about your nephew. Forgot about him doing the baby sit thing in Hawaii. How in the world did he find out and arrange something like that? Doesn't that sound neat??????? Through a college program maybe? Hmm..I could go to Hawaii for the winter and David could come back and take care of our house and the dogs. Give him lots of space.

Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"