Jimbo, sorry that you feel that way. I guess that is the way our society is becoming. Don't worry about the truth and honesty, just make everyone feel good. Why do I say what I do as often as I do? Because these MLCers will string you along, sometimes for years, until they get comfortable enough with thier new life to ditch you completely. I have seen this many times! Poor people here thinking they have made "progress" only to have thier hearts ripped out once thier WAS feels comfortable enough to go it alone. Answer me this Jimbo, is it better to tell someone straight in the begining, or make them have hope and encourage them to work on themselves and wait this out for years? For my money, I would rather have the facts from the start so I can make an honest apprasial of the situation.