TxMom, it's always the surprises that get me. Like the lawyer charge or the weekends away all of a sudden. We all need stability right now is this awful situation and every surprise is like a punch in the stomach. You will need a couple of days to recover but believe me, you will recover. So just keep your cool, don't think about it too much. If he brings it up just agree with him and catch him off guard. As in, "yes, you are absolutely right, we should get a D. That is the best for us." Then in actuality stall, stall, stall.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09