That sounds great, just what I needed...NO MORE GAMES (That's what got me here in the first place...games. The theory that wa painted was to act confident and sure, and give the impression that I was moving on with or without her...I thought that it could be counterproductive myself...so...no talk in our LC about relationship issues, or what I am working on, just be myself and let her see the changes in me? I also have a couple of friends...mutual friends between me and W, and I did tell them that I wasn't giving up on the marriage, and I did ask them to pray and stand with me...that I feel should be okay, the more people praying, the better, right?