oh Sanderika, i am SO happy for you too! i do agree that the type of gift H got for you is VERY significant. it's wonderful that you have come closer to each other. and i do understand very well why you don't want to buy a gift for H because he's with OW.
I agree with you and your request to Mof3 re:posting. Even when it's annoying/painful/or we disagree, it can still be intersting and insightful.
i am so happy that your xmas went ok, M! i think that's a great sign of progress too. Hang in there, all of you, and Happy New year, may it be filled with hope and joy and progress on yourselves and your R with YOURSELF as a 'whole' person, whatever is happening with your partner.
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