I really like what you said about rediscovering who you are and beginning to like yourself again. I too am slowly coming to understand that. My H has always been the conservative, stay with the plan kind of guy. And that's been good in many ways. He is very successful. But, I have always has a more liberal bohemian type personality. And I have always felt that he saw me (and in many ways our children) as a burden rather than a joy. It's very sad that they will have to really lose something precious before they will realize its value.
Take care!
((()))
TJ
Me45,H49 D24,S18 M26,T28 Bomb 3/19/08 Sep 6/23/08 EA/PA with Secretary 2007-8 3/2009 H moved in w/OW2 7/2009 Let him go w/Love. 8/2009 Legally Sep'd