Thanks Tom. I need to correct something though. My xhusband got fired from the police force. That is actually when I think his attitude changed. He now is a supervisor at a Nursing Home for the elderly. He loves to be in authority. He loves telling people what to do and says he loves his new job. This is where he has met 2 of the women he has went out with, ages 25 and 30. They both have moved on and say they were lured in by his charm. I believe them, because he did the same thing to me 20 years ago. I just dread the day he really really likes someone. I think he started to have feelings for the 30 year old. She is so much like me personality wise but looks opposite of me physically. It has only been over 3 months, and I still feel desperate. Our conversations have went from, we need to be friends first before we get back together...to...I dont know what the future holds for us...to...we are never getting back together now. I am afraid I have ruined any chance we had by calling and trying to fix things. What do you think? Even though I have not stopped calling, is their still time to correct this and win him back?
