Part of it IS "evidence" should we end up in divorce court. I am also very much a "keeper" when it comes to letters, cards, momentos, journals, even e-mails. I like to have hard "proof" of things.
Some of the stuff was SO unbelievable, that in a way I keep it to remind myself what CJ is capable of. Protection for me somehow??
I honestly haven't looked in that file since I shoved the stuff in there. It's NOT something I torture myself or CJ with.
And as I've posted recently, my level of trust and such is increasing and I think I will KNOW when it's time to BBQ OW
