Brother go back to the basics and do what makes you happy, sushi and a beer, watch a ballgame...
As you have said to me countless times STOP trying to figure out the illogical there is no answer...
You are smarter than that...
Brian
Aw hell you drew cornfed out of the closet.......
Look dude, I am not loading my guns nor counting my ammo.
I want you to simply think about what it is you are saying. Normal.... who exactly gets to define this?
Women without any baggage in Tennessee------ZERO Men without any baggage in Tennessee------ZERO
You see, I think what you and I have in common is that our expectations of normalcy are based on a great deal of time spent here getting ourselves back to normal. We read the posts by these amazing women on here and we believe that it is just the women we picked or hook up with that are nuts. It's not.....
The women on this board are amazing, however and I believe most of them would agree here, even they are not normal. In fact forget just the boards, anyone who has ever had a relationship, is probably not normal.
Unfortunately in todays world most women have been married at least once. Most men as well. Most of us have at least one child. Most of us have an ex that was/is a stalker. Most of us have our moments of jealousy, anxiety, hysteria, or just plain old crazy..... It's part of the programing. I think that what you need to be thinking about is finding someone who handles themselves well when the insanity kicks in.
If you were to find someone who was perfectly "normal" I believe you would be waiting around on pins and needles for the hammer to drop and something crazy to rear it's ugly head.
So no hammer here buddy..... .just relax and to quote the great Sargent Hulka.... Lighten up Francis........