It's like watching baseball on the big screen, or finding great shoes on sale.
You know Jeff, the post you wrote to FIB is yes somewhat true.
It does hurt. I have to tell you tho. This is the 2nd Christmas without the X and the kids and I did good.
I had them Christmas eve and Christmas morning. I may not have them next year for this, so I made sure that THIS year was going to be great.
Their faces, well if you go to my FB page you can see them. Waking up in the morning and the FIRST thing they did was lay down on the floor to sing Happy Birthday to baby Jesus, and THEN plow into the presents.
They were so happy and spoiled by so many friends and family.
AND do you know that my kids were able to have Christmas all over again, when they went to their dads place?
They were able to open more things and play those games with his new family.
I have not seen my babies since Thursday this has been the LONGEST time EVER away from my babies.
I miss them sooo dang much, but they have called me with excitement in their voices. No crying.
IT is all falling into place with the help of God.
It may not be the places I wanted them to fall into, but I have to be grateful for what I DO have.
It is all about the babies. They need to see us LIVE and be filled with joy. They need to know that WE are ok when they leave our side to be with the other parent.
It is our duty to make this transition for them as loving as possible. IN spite of our heartache and hurt feelings.
Well BIG hugs to you my friend. I hope you have a wonderful new year
Last edited by Lissie; 12/30/0803:38 AM.
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