Quoting shinybear:
Hi Sage, have you tried "talking" to your H via e-mail? I can't recall. All I know is that I'm getting LOTS more of what I want to hear that way and it's easier to say some stuff too.



Nope. Haven't really had any overt R talk for some time...mainly because I'm still super gunshy about hearing "well, I'm STILL not sure I want to be married to anyone..." since I've heard it more than once during DB'ing.

Sage


Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.