Carlos I think your sis is right. You are going through another stage of mourning process. I think grieving is like walking up in a circular staircase. You will hit other emotions along the way in cycle and eventually you will walk all the way to the top. It just takes times. I know what you mean feeling overwhelmed. I am not changing my job or moving, but all the unknowns are just not sitting well sometimes. Try to stay in present, tackle one thing at a time and you will be just fine. As far as suggesting going to Retrouvaille, I will sit on that for couple days. It may come out as your idea....you know the control feelings never sit well with WAS. Let the mourning pass through, you will have a clearer idea on where you at.
Keep up the good work...
NW626
Me:33 STBXW:38 S:3 It's not whether you win or lose, it's how you fight the fight....!!