I haven't posted to you before but I can add something to the depression issue. I have what is called biological depression. the doctor says it is hereditary and a brain chemistry issue. I have taken ADs for the last 9 years starting with Prozac...not the one I would recommend...now I am on Welbutrin. You CANNOT stop taking them cold turkey without falling into a deeper depression. If you do it too many times, you run the risk of not being able to rebound from the depression.
If a person wishes to discontinue taking ADs (which I tried the right way but my dr and I decided it was not the best avenue for me) you must wean yourself from them slowly by reducing the dosage gradually by following Drs instructions.
I hope your H gets back on them and finds the type that works the best for him.
Take care,
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.