I think it's good you are standing your ground. In my short M, my H always said whatever I wanted. That gave me too much control.
Its so weird. I tried to make her happy, I did backflips to give her what she wanted, then she accused ME of being controlling because I wanted to know when she was going to come back from shopping late in the evening.
I just thought it would be common courtesy to let me know when to expect her back, so that if she did not come back at that time, I would know to be concerned.
Apparantly that was controlling.
'I gave her everything she ever wanted...wasn't what she wanted'
Bono
Last edited by native; 12/30/0802:06 AM.
Me 47, W 32,D 6, Met 11 yrs. ago, M 7 Bomb 4/08/08, Sep. 8/10/08, Div. 8/10/09