I am so sorry. I kept checking back to see what was happening as I had a feeling. I only had that feeling because I lived the same nightmare. I too accepted my h back and found that he was still in contact with OW. I finally kicked his a** out in July. Can't say its been easy...go read my threads but I do feel some sense of control for once.
When you told me about the locking of the phone I instantly knew. These guys are good at what they do. My h also got a DUI and is now walking when he comes to see baby.
Hang in there. I will always be here.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!