Knowing my FIL, I can just hear him ask H: are you ever planning on moving home, why haven't you found a job, you have responsibilities..............and finally FIL will say: until you knock it off with ow, you will get nothing from me. h was disinherited a few years ago.....
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
I just wish he was close to being able to move home.
Hey you can look at it from my viewpoint. It will be 5 years since the bomb in March and H divorced me and really doesn't like to talk to me unless no other choice.
Compared to me you should feel like one of the lucky ones.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
I do feel fortunate that he is still in contact with us.
Did I tell you that he put me back on his cell phone plan? Yes, so now I save some $$$. He took me off right before he moved out in 2006.
Honestly, I do not think we are headed for a divorce.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
oh, I know that you are no where near divorce. I sm so glad you are not headed in that direction. It does make it more difficult to continue to stand. I am glad he put you back on his plan.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
Oh--I think it is hilarious how many times he is coming over!! He will be here everyday except Friday.
What a waste of gas for him.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Not really a waste of gas...he gets to see you and his children what better way to spend gas money....
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
I think all that dances in his head these days is dollar symbols, though.
He spent the whole day here according to D15. H watched tv and when he was watching it, our cable was disconnected. I asked the cable company to disconnect it as it was outrageous what they are charging. Then he helped D15 clean up after the dogs outside, he emptied his car.....ate some lunch.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
All is very strange right now with your H. I really don't know what to think about the way he is doing right now. I hope this car repair will make him realize he has got to get out & find a job!
