They probably know a lot already. I think if you share this info with as much compassion as you can muster, they will understand. I am not an example by any means and I wasn't here when dumbs$$ told the kids. We had gotten into an argument maybe a week after I found out. I said just so you know if you leave me, you will be telling the kids the truth, not some bs about us not getting along. I had to get out of the house for a bit, so I drove around for a bit.

When I walk back in the house, all 4 kids run to me and say oh, Mommy we love you so much, we are so sorry. Ex told them that he was in love with someone else. I guess I was in a losing battle from the get go, but the point is he just blurted it out. Well we all know I was married to an a$$ and that my kids have been extremely supportive of me. My 2 boys had thought he was cheating but were trying to gather evidence before they said anything!

Did any of this make sense? Hope so. hugs.

kat


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