No update! I just can't get over you guys emails. I love them! You are both so lucky to have one another and the chance to rebuild your R into such a loving strong relationship!
I posted the emails I sent if you want to take a look later.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
You are both so lucky to have one another and the chance to rebuild your R into such a loving strong relationship! 
