Hey Fixer! I hope you had a nice Christmas! I bet your D was excited eh?
I agree w/ Jack, 4 yrs was when it finally stopped for me, well actually my ex filed and began procedures before that, but I guess 4 yrs was when I pretty much felt for me, I couldnt fight it- its what he wanted,and it was out of my control, diff sit for you, I didnt really have a choice but 4 yrs felt like the time I was more then ok with it, after fighting it for so long
Whatever you chose, like a lot of us, whatever decision, you can so hold your head up h igh, no one can say you didnt try if thats the route you eventually chose. 2 yrs after my D, I am not a bit ashamed or even upset at this point, things are actually better for me now without my ex, and he is just now starting to shake off the cobwebs, but I am glad I have a different life again, thats ME, no one can say whats best for you, but again whatever it is, you are a good man, a strong man and a fantastic father, no one can take that away from you
Happy New Year
Be Happy for this Moment, This Moment is your Life
