I wore the ring to this point because W and I were at least communicating - until a month ago, probably coincidental with OM, we had dinner together, went places with kids together, had plans on holidays together, etc.
Anyway, where I am now: W looked me in the eyes and promised to love me and be with me until we died - not being with anyone else, even through the bad times.
The ring was a symbol of that - with another man, she has shattered what it means.