I'm pretty sure I said this earlier in the week (yah, while I was wielding not one but two 2x4s! I'd like the addition named after me, please!) -- but you guys are both totally awesome!
AND...thank you so much for sharing your email and CJ's ... gave me hope that maybe h. feels something similar...
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
Hi Sage, have you tried "talking" to your H via e-mail? I can't recall. All I know is that I'm getting LOTS more of what I want to hear that way and it's easier to say some stuff too.
And, um, yes, I DID take a nap....tried to just read my novel, but it was tooooo comfy. CJ joined me for a while, but I out lasted him. I think I figured it out though: I missed taking my celexa for the last two nights and that governs sleep cycles along with a lot of other stuff.
Dummy! I WILL take it tonight.
Still all fuzzy wuzzy...now it's 7:30 p.m....what time does YOUR body clock read????
WOW That is the most romantic, most thoughtful, most wonderful thing I have ever read anywhere... including any awesome book. And to have it written to you, Shiny, from YOUR wonderful H, CJ. You and he are lucky, lucky, lucky to have each other. I suggest a huge bonfire, followed by smores over the coals and maybe a wonderful glass of wine. That would be a memory.
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
No update! I just can't get over you guys emails. I love them! You are both so lucky to have one another and the chance to rebuild your R into such a loving strong relationship!
I posted the emails I sent if you want to take a look later.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
Well it was another hot sunny day here. Probably one of the last for this year.
I thought I'd sit on the deck and read....but ended up weeding and trimming again! ...Was lodged behind our back mock orange bush cutting away dead branches and ones growing over into the neighbour's yard (all caught up in their vine ) when a boomer blasted and the first fat rain drops began to fall.
I zipped out and under, grabbed my tools and put them away. Then I passed my book and pillow off to CJ and just stood in the torrential downpour and let it wash the dirt from my body...it felt Great! (would have been even better nude, but I DO live in a city ).
We went out for brunch today, very nice, but we never do it justice. We just can't eat all THAT much in one sitting. Heck I saved half of my crepe for dessert...
So all in all a good day here. Not sure what I'll do this evening, the sun is out again...too bad those lounge chairs are soaked. Maybe I'll take myself out for a coffee and look for another novel...CJ's doing school stuff.
Sounds like a nice day. You got some yard work done and a nice rain, which I know you like!
So what time does it get dark there? It showed your post at 8:00 it is starting to get dark here by then. Not totally till a little after 9:00 but not too much sun left at that time of day!
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
Yeah, we're lucky, about 60 miles east of standard time zone, that gives us an extra hour.
Falls vary here...some are long and wonderful, other years it snows and stays before the leaves have all fallen!
I'm hoping for a loooong one! Love the maple leaves, we do get quite a show here.
Too weird you guys. I decided to watch a movie on T.V...it's called "The traveller"...well it turns out to be about a guy with a W and a 3 year old boy who just books it on the kid's birthday. Outta there...see 'ya never...
He's been travelling around, messing with love-lorn small town waitresses....YUCK...I felt NO sympathy or empathy for this character at all! He keeps calling "home" and then wimping out and hanging up! Ewwww!
Oh well...that's the good thing about freedom of choice..."click"..bye bye
I WILL take it tonight. 
That is the most romantic, most thoughtful, most wonderful thing I have ever read anywhere... including any awesome book. And to have it written to you, Shiny, from YOUR wonderful H, CJ. You and he are lucky, lucky, lucky to have each other. I suggest a huge bonfire, followed by smores over the coals and maybe a wonderful glass of wine. That would be a memory. 
You are both so lucky to have one another and the chance to rebuild your R into such a loving strong relationship! 
...Was lodged behind our back mock orange bush cutting away dead branches and ones growing over into the neighbour's yard (all caught up in their vine 
) when a boomer blasted and the first fat rain drops began to fall.
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