Thanks ladies for looking after LE. I actually had a better day than I expected. Just more thought of "why would I want to be with her anymore after she has done this to me three times." Even if her fog were to lift I just can't see my life with her. So I am headed out the door at work to go see a friend for a few minutes and then picking up the kids and headed to my brother's for a belated Christmas celebration. My XW and her OM can have each other, they are a perfect pair.
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A man who compromises his principles never had them in the first place.
Thanks ladies for looking after LE. I actually had a better day than I expected. Just more thought of "why would I want to be with her anymore after she has done this to me three times." Even if her fog were to lift I just can't see my life with her. So I am headed out the door at work to go see a friend for a few minutes and then picking up the kids and headed to my brother's for a belated Christmas celebration. My XW and her OM can have each other, they are a perfect pair.
LE buddy, this is detaching properly. I thought i had plenty until i got to this point. You'll still get lapses, but when i got to this point it became easier for me. Time for some deep self and life analysis now bro to push on. Look at yourself now, what you like don't like, what you want and feel u should change to be a better person and to have some direction.
Hope the rest of the holidays are a great time for you.
LE-Hope you had fun with the kiddies. Maybe you can start a tradition of one of you having Christmas Eve and the other having Christmas Day. That is how we did it and it was really fun.
I too am really glad you had a better day than expected. It sounds like things are shifting for a lot of us. Our friend BG is sort of mia but the kids are off for Christmas break so that is probably a big part of it.
Just do your best with the PMA and I second Tawyna, you are a pretty terrific guy. Have a great New Year.
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If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.
I have been away and sick. Still with my kids and hanging out on a sick day. The flu has swung this way and it is not good. D had it until Sunday, S had it last week, and now it is my turn. Had a good celebration with the kids on Friday and then at my brother's on Saturday. We've been just playing and sick since then. Finally starting to come out of it today.
M42 S12/D9 T17/M12 Bomb 1 3/22/06 Bomb 2 7/11/08 Bomb 3 7/31/08 W Filed 8/1/08 D granted 12/17/08 D Finalized 1/29/09
A man who compromises his principles never had them in the first place.
hey LE. so sorry you are all dealing with the flu. that sucks!! glad you are still having a good time with the kiddos. sending you some good healing!!
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
