Well, I survived Christmas.

H sent S16 home with a bottle of wine for me. I didn't get H anything. I wonder if I should have. I was really surprised that he got me a bottle of wine or anything for that fact.

S20 was only there a few hours before he came back home on Christmas day. I asked S20 why S16 didn't come back with him and he said that S16 had drank a beer and so he couldn't drive. S16 was back home before 10:30 the next morning. S16 had left at 3pm on Christmas day. S16 stayed home with me until about 3:30 pm Friday. He could have stayed with H at OW's house because OW had to work but instead he came home and just watched tv. I wonder if H even thinks about this. Why won't S16 spend time at OW's?

Has anyone read or heard of The Secret? What do you think about it?

I found it interested that H told me when he left that it wasn't his responsibility to make me happy. This is what The Secret says. That it is my job to make me happy.

Any comments on this anyone?