Kissak, Breton and MWG,

Thanks so much for your encouraging posts ! It means so much to me ! I admire you ladies !

I feel a little annoyed tonight. I sent a TM to H asking him at what time he would be picking up the kids on Thursday, and bringing them back on Friday. He sent a TM back saying. 'I will be there at 5pm on Thurs and will bring them back on Sunday'. Well, it IS his weekend, but he usually takes the kids on Saturday, just for the night..so I was a bit upset that the kids would be gone that long, especially as I feel I have hardly seen them these Christmas holidays...so I sent a TM asking him to please inform me of such plans in the future as I would like to give him the kids whenever he wants them, but that it would be nice to know a little beforehand.
Anyway, a few TM's back and forth and all ending in OK...(I hate that, it's so cold and impersonal. Oh well.

I guess I still expect too much empathy from H, and keeep forgetting that he is LOST and being an EGOCENTRIC teenager right now. And he may be for years and years to come.

Thanks for listening.


Love Cinders xxx

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