You ask me to enter / But then you make me crawl

[MsMelancoly]

I totally agree, animals have this 6th sense. Thinking about your dog scenario, I realize that my dogs & cats & myself are more alike than I thought. Friends have to win over my pets before they like them, they are yappy, shy & well, I'm not that yappy - but shy & reserved myself. Kinda strange when I think about it - how my personality & my pets mesh. Because of my nature men have to "win" me over too.

Maybe that is what my sitch, my M is missing. My H having to "win" me back. Ah ... the challenge .....