Doing what got me this far.

[Bridgestone]

Hi Neil..
based on these 4 stages of DB'ing for reconciliation..
where would you say your R was when you started here?
Where is it now?

Stage 1: create a neutral/non-negative zone
(I've also seen this as -reduction of negative emotions- 'safe' comes to mind)
Stage 2: friendship
Stage 3: romance
Stage 4: reconciliation

Do you think you are making progress? Your wife said things were better, if you showed her this where do you think she would put things?

Hoping for new directions for your new year.
Hugs
Bridge